The new normal

Uncertainty is the new normal

For the people in your seats, fear shows up everywhere
  • Funding and policy changes that shift under their feet from one year to the next
  • People doing two jobs because the open seat never got filled
  • New rules, new tech and new expectations, faster than anyone can keep up
  • Scrutiny from every direction, where one mistake feels like it could end a career
  • Travel budgets shrinking, so the days they do get together have to count

You can't control all of it.

You can change what fear does in your room.

Written fears from education professionals

What education professionals wrote on their cards

These are real cards from conference rooms full of education professionals, shared without names. The people in your seats are carrying some of these too.

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A conference attendee drops his fear card into the fire pit.Attendees putting their fear cards into the fire pit during a conference keynote.
fears into the fire pit at a national conference
FYI, the fire is not real
Not knowing enough to be considered an expert even though I already am.
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The real handwritten card
That I'm not taking big enough swings in life, that I'm playing too safe. And that I'll regret it in the future.
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The real handwritten card
Not living to my fullest potential. I fear that my own anxiety is keeping me stuck from growing in my career.
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The real handwritten card
Meet Darryl

hey, I'mDarryl!

I've been the opening keynote, the closing keynote and the after-lunch keynote, which is the one everybody is scared to book. For more than ten years I've asked the room some version of the question: what do you fear?

The cards from association conferences, from admission counselors to transportation directors to student access teams, sound a lot alike. I use a decade of what they wrote to build a keynote that gets your attendees talking to each other before the first break and leaves them more connected than when they walked in. It also keeps the room awake, which matters when your slot is right after lunch.

360+
schools, campuses and organizations
75,000+
written fears collected
10+
years on conference stages
Darryl on stage at a national education conferenceA conference attendee drops her fear card into the fire pit.
The Fearless Experience

What the
experience looks like

This isn't a sit-and-listen keynote. Here's how it works, from the weeks before to the days after.

01
SAMPLE PRE-EVENT VIDEO

Before the day

Darryl sends a pre-event video, and your attendees have the option to share some of their challenges beforehand.

02
energy & interactive

In the room

From the walk-on song to the fear cards to the fire pit, everyone takes part. Nobody just sits and listens.

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picture worthy tools

Tools they can use

Simple steps your attendees can take back to their school, their campus or their office the next week, not just a good feeling.

Attendees showing their Fear(less) bands after the keynote.04
Fear(less) band

After they leave

Everyone leaves with a Fear(less) band and one next step, so the conversation keeps going long after the conference ends.

The keynote

Fearful to fearing less

This keynote gives your attendees real stories, a room that's up and moving, and a simple way to keep going when fear, change and uncertainty show up.

Your attendees will leave able to
1
Name what they're carrying. Put words to the fear, worry or stress behind the hard days.
2
Sort what's theirs to control. Let go of what isn't and choose one small next step.
3
Bounce back from setbacks. Give themselves, and the people around them, room to be human.
4
Keep the conversation going. Use the same simple language with their team and with the people they serve.
Built for the biggest moments on your agenda
Opening keynote

Set the tone and get strangers talking on day one.

Closing keynote

Send them home with something to do, not just something to remember.

Lunch and general sessions

The slot every planner worries about, handled.

Leadership institutes and board retreats

For the people who carry the weight.

Conferences and associations I've spoken at

You're in good company

NAPT
NOSS
NEACAC
Indiana ACAC
TEPSA
AISNE
NIRSA
NACURH
HECA
Fraternity Executives Association
Alabama Association of School Boards
EdTrust-West
Education First
Portico
Strada Education Foundation
Colorado Education Initiative
Communities In Schools
From the very beginning, it was clear that he captured the attention of everyone in the room, regardless of the roles they play in K-12 or higher education. Darryl's keynote was exactly what we needed to hear, and it resonated with all of us.
Program Chair
Megan Dorton
Indiana Association for College Admission Counseling
Before you book

Booking FAQ

Don't see your question? Call 980-217-2441 or email hello@fearlessinside.com.

For your conference
Opening or closing keynote, which is better?+

Both work. Opening gets strangers talking on day one. Closing sends them home with one thing to do. Tell Darryl where the slot is and he'll build for it.

Can the keynote tie into our conference theme?+

Yes. On a short planning call we talk about your theme, your attendees and what they're facing this year, and Darryl works them into the day.

Our attendees come from different roles. Will it land for everyone?+

Yes. Rooms with K-12 and college people, or counselors and directors, are common for Darryl. The fear cards are what make it land, because everyone sees their own card up there.

Planning the day
How far ahead do associations usually book?+

Most associations book 6 to 12 months out, right after the previous conference wraps. If your date is sooner, ask anyway.

Can Darryl also run a breakout session?+

Yes. The Fearing Less in Action workshop runs 45 to 75 minutes and fits as a breakout the same day or the day after.

What do you need from us before the day?+

A date, a room and a point person. We send a short link so your attendees can share their fears anonymously ahead of time, and Darryl builds the keynote from what comes back.

How it works
✓Step 01.You reach out
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✓Step 02.You hear back fast
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✓Step 03.We talk about your event
Let's

You will hear back within hours on business days.

Talk.
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